Apr 10Member-onlyThe Real Goal is to Not Have a GoalHow I publish best-selling books. Read Marcus Aurelius’ journal, these days titled Meditations, and you’ll see how often the ruler of the world didn’t care how his decisions played out in it. Amor Fati, Aurelius said, which is Latin for, “A love of one’s fate,” which itself means, at least…Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
Mar 3Member-onlyHow to Liberate Your Life. And Get Richer Along the Way.Control the process, not the outcome. Before my first book was published Steven Spielberg optioned it. This was awesome for, like, two days and then the pressure mounted. Will you meet with this screenwriter? Have breakfast with these producers? Everyone wants to know how quickly you can get the manuscript…Books3 min readBooks3 min read
Feb 6Member-onlyHow filing for unemployment made me a better writer—and person.And influenced the book I was writing. You don’t have to see the whole staircase. You just have to take the first step. Keep that in mind. Because I’m going to tell a story. A story that began a long time ago and ends today. It ends well. I’ll give…Books5 min readBooks5 min read
Feb 1Member-onlyDo the hard thing: Enjoy your success.On watching a story of mine debut at Sundance, and thinking about Neil Gaiman. Week-by-week readers know that last week I was at Sundance, watching a film adaptation of a story I wrote. There was so much I could think about: Which celebrities will I see? And how will I…Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
Jan 19Member-only“Do More Than Your Best. Do What is Required.”A project fell through that I needed financially, so I’m scrambling right now. Every freelance writer reading this knows the feeling: I’m not good enough. Is it always going to be this hard? Hell, many staff writers have similar feelings when a big story collapses. Will I find another one…Self Improvement3 min readSelf Improvement3 min read
Jan 9Member-onlyThe ONE goal you should haveIt’s also the ONLY goal you should have as a writer. So let’s start by saying something bold: The lesson of Barnes & Noble is the lesson for every writer. The jazz critic and music historian Ted Gioia has a great piece on Barnes & Noble. It’s expanding. In 2023. …Self Improvement2 min readSelf Improvement2 min read
Dec 2, 2022Member-onlyTo overcome your doubt, learn to sit alongside itWhat if I fail? What if I have modest success but never write for dream publications? What if I write for dream publications but never quiet the inner voice that says I’m inadequate? I’ve posed these questions. Maybe you have too. How do you stop them? Well, I’m not sure…Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
Oct 5, 2022Member-only“Put Your Ass Where Your Heart Wants to Be”How to write and how to live. This quote comes from Steven Pressfield, the historical novelist who has a new book out: Put Your Ass Where Your Heart Wants to Be. It’s another way to say what Emerson has before him: “God will not have his work made manifest by…Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
Sep 19, 2022Member-onlyHow to turn your pain and fear and joy and triumphs into viral stories.On Medium and any other platform. Everything I read and consumed in this week fit into one theme: How everything is useful for you, fuel for. So let’s talk about that. In particular let’s talk about how: You Will Use It All. I found this idea in Stephen King’s On Writing, which I read this…Writing Tips4 min readWriting Tips4 min read
Sep 13, 2022Member-onlyThe Best Career Advice You’ll ReadOne book has transformed how I think about what I do—and why A friend of mine, for my birthday, got me Warren Bennis’ classic On Becoming a Leader. I thanked him for the book but it sat on Mount Nightstand for five months. …Self Improvement3 min readSelf Improvement3 min read