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The Best Way to Override Your Inner Perfectionist

Paul Kix
3 min readFeb 23, 2022

A world-renown psychologist dishes on how to “redirect” the story you tell yourself.

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Today I’ll wrap up a magazine feature that’ll appear next month. To report the piece about an entrepreneur I researched aspects of religion, philosophy, and the DSMs III and IV. Part of that psychological research included Dr. Timothy Wilson’s book, Redirect.

That thing is fascinating.

Wilson’s research concerns how the thoughts we have become the stories we tell ourselves, which become the behaviors we exhibit and the lives we lead. Wilson’s studies find that if you edit people’s thoughts — “story editing” as he calls it — you change people’s lives. A single, half-hour story-editing session helped students at risk of failing pick up their grades and then, years later, make the Dean’s List.

Story editing to Wilson is simply that: the ability to choose to accept the thought as is, delete it entirely, or edit it into something else. The whole book looks at peer-reviewed science on how to do this but I’m sharing its findings here because I applied Wilson’s mental story-editing even as I wrote the actual story.

You should do the same the next time you write a piece on Medium or anywhere else.

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Paul Kix
Paul Kix

Written by Paul Kix

Best-selling author of The Saboteur. Learn the 7 rules six-figure writers follow to make more money: https://paulkixnewsletter.lpages.co/seven-tips-pdf/

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Aloha Paul - thanks! I think THIS piece hit a nerve - it has me thinking anyway. I have a half-dozen or more 'drafts' in various stages sitting on a shelf/stuffed away in a drawer...
Looking into Redirect and 'story-editing' - I've never considered…

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I really connect with this and like how this "article" is more the sharing of a simple nugget of wisdom without the attempt to pile some more stuff on to garnish it . I like that we can do that on Medium.
It should get more claps and followers…

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